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avo442 |
05-18-2009 @ 11:33 AM
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Mingler
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Because sometimes threads can freeze up your computer like its their job.
ye olde threade:
Forum=21&Topic=12042>here
No relationship info at this time, though.
...on a totally unrelated subject:
Can you see beyond the red in your eyes?
This message was edited by avo442 on 5-18-09 @ 11:35 AM
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05-18-2009 @ 12:09 PM
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Stage diver
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I actually second this. I haven't had any problems with the thread sizes as of late, but I think we had a thread page limit set somewhere, amirite?
On a mildly thread-related note, I think some people will be mad at me.
i'm not fucking around, i think i'm coming out
i'm a hater, a traitor
in a pair of chuck taylors right now
i'm not fucking around
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rondiggy |
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05-18-2009 @ 1:12 PM
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Crowd Surfer
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getting a GOCI i beleive... and she might be gaining a BOCI (:
 Everything I know about breaking hearts, I learned from you
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05-18-2009 @ 2:12 PM
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Stage diver
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I'm like one of five males in my social psych class. 107 people are
enrolled.
I need to put myself out there, and there's no better opportunity.
Oh lover-
-we won't recover.
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Katieheartskoalas |
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05-18-2009 @ 4:04 PM
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Stage diver
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Actually, this is the old thread but anyway,
Same relationship stuff as yesterday. Back together, things are going splendidly, still being cautious.
Yeah, I'm boring.
Stay hungry, stay free
do the best you can
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ejfarb |
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05-18-2009 @ 4:34 PM
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Crowd Surfer
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I am so sick of you!!! Make up your mind! And if you can't, you should at least have the decency to man up and tell me you're confused or indecisive or whatever it is, so i don't have to find it out through FACEBOOK. I am sick of your constant flirting, hinting of hooking up with me, threatening to beat up any guy who talks to me. But then you go back and hook up with your ex? And FINALLY some one stood up and reminded you what a bitch she is, and what do you do? you're furious and won't talk to anyone who doesn't like your ex! Well guess what! I HAAATE HER. So until you make up your mind, back THE F*CK off.
ps. AND NOOOO. I don't want to come over tonight, or ever. stop asking.
.....as you can tell I'm kind of frustrated.
And yes,
This is my singing voice.
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january |
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05-18-2009 @ 4:42 PM
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Katie: I wanted to say this when you first mentioned about getting back together with the bee-eff, but I got side-tracked. So here it is now!
I think too many people have a delusional view of what a relationship should be. I don't want to persuade anyone to stay with someone they're truly unhappy with BUT I do think there's got to be a bit of a compromise when it comes to expectations.
Nobody's perfect. The knight in shining armor doesn't exist. I think what makes a relationship work is being able to look past the minor things that irritate you about the other person.
My husband annoys the sh*t out of me. SERIOUSLY. He'll even vouch for that statement. His little habits drive me up the f*cking wall and what's worse is that so far, our daughter is EXACTLY like him. The two of them together will send me to an early grave.
There's things that bother me about him, there's aspects about our relationship that I don't really like. But all in all, the good outweighs the bad. He's loving, he's funny, he'll do anything to make me as happy as I can possibly be.
So... yeah... that long rant was made to hopefully give you some perspective on your whole relationship?? It just seemed to me like you guys were really happy & then all of the sudden there was this big break-up over something that (to me) didn't seem like THAT big of a deal. Then again, I wasn't there so I don't really know what exactly happened so feel free to tell me to shut the f*ck up because I don't know what I'm talking about. 
I just think too many people throw away relationships over something trivial. No one's perfect, yanno?
Ain't nobody got a blessing like mine
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05-18-2009 @ 11:20 PM
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Stage diver
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I must admit, I have a wonderful sense of closure now. Not only has Dan apologized, but he regrets hurting me. He knows he's f*cked up and there's no way to redeem himself.
I don't really want to sound like a vindicated bitch, but BUAHAHAHAAAA!!!! VICTORY!!!!
i'm not fucking around, i think i'm coming out
i'm a hater, a traitor
in a pair of chuck taylors right now
i'm not fucking around
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Katieheartskoalas |
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05-18-2009 @ 11:47 PM
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Stage diver
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^^ Thanks, Heather
And I love your sig, too.
quote:
I must admit, I have a wonderful sense of closure now. Not only has Dan apologized, but he regrets hurting me. He knows he's f*cked up and there's no way to redeem himself.
I don't really want to sound like a vindicated bitch, but BUAHAHAHAAAA!!!! VICTORY!!!!
At least your exs (or at least psuedo exes) REALIZE when they've f*cked up and apologize...
EDIT: Oh, and for me and the bf:
He went from blowing off my calls and texts before to now called and texting me. I used to do most of the calling and texting, and I guess now that I don't he just thinks I'm forgetting about him.
lolz.
Stay hungry, stay free
do the best you can
This message was edited by Katieheartskoalas on 5-18-09 @ 11:49 PM
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05-19-2009 @ 12:07 AM
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The weirdest stuff is happening (via text and distance) like right now and I don't know what to say...between me and someone I've known since I was 4...yeah, like one, two, three...FOUR.
What?
i could set this heart on stun
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avo442 |
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05-19-2009 @ 11:44 AM
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Mingler
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quote:
Actually, this is the old thread but anyway,
yeah i know. i have trouble with links.
...on a totally unrelated subject:
A view on equality from a homicidal maniac:
We're all just red and squishy on the inside.
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MellorStrummer |
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05-19-2009 @ 2:52 PM
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quote:
At least your exs (or at least psuedo exes) REALIZE when they've f*cked up and apologize...
I know, right?
Well, I'm not suppose to see you looking
I'm not suppose to stare straight into your eyes
Well, I'm not suppose to kiss your lips
But you smile so sweet
I can't resist those eyes
Official White (wo)Man in Hammersmith Palais
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chrliebrwn1 |
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05-20-2009 @ 12:05 AM
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Stage diver
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So, my friend Emma has lined up a friend of hers for me to talk to.
Being the somewhat shallow bastard I am, I don't really find her that attractive. Been communicating by facebook, and she seems keen.
Eh.
I've been up for days, trying to find a way to write this confession down
Seems every line I writes a mess,
at least this I'll admit
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eveninkfades26 |
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05-20-2009 @ 12:10 AM
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Crowd surfer
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With a serious lack of interesting guys in Cleveland, I finally found one to
be semi-interested in. While at dinner tonight, I randomly made long eye
contact with another waiter and he came over to introduce himself and
see if we needed anything. And he also made a point to say goodbye to
me as we left. It's a huge longshot, but it's nice to think about at least.
 Time may change a lot, but some things stay the same.
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El_Queso_Grande |
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05-20-2009 @ 9:38 AM
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Stage diver
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Target acquired.
Oh lover-
-we won't recover.
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chrliebrwn1 |
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05-20-2009 @ 9:48 AM
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Stage diver
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I think I'm getting over the looks barrier. this girl seems pretty cool.
Tho I have somewhat got my eye on another girl. The one who's possibly moving down to Melbourne.
Holy confusion batman!
I've been up for days, trying to find a way to write this confession down
Seems every line I writes a mess,
at least this I'll admit
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AstroZombiexAllie |
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05-20-2009 @ 10:03 AM
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Crowd Surfer
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I'm single.
My ex boyfriend Steven, I swear, tries to irritate me. I started hanging out with his straight edge friends that he abandoned a while ago for his pot loving friends, and of course he HAS to start hanging out with his straightedge friends once I do.
He's proved himself to be more of an idiot, because he's moving back to Texas in 2 weeks, and he acquired a new girlfriend like a week ago.
Why do I care?
bllaarrgggghh
That said we've had enough
Put "Walk Among Us" on and turn it up
Nothing on the airwaves in the hatred we feel..
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Alahey |
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05-20-2009 @ 4:39 PM
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Mingler
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Oh hai!
Guess who!
Oh, and, a new boy said I was cute 
My life
A constant working progress
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SeptembersEnd |
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05-20-2009 @ 7:31 PM
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Stage diver
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You don't like being an Astro Zombie anymore?
i'm not fucking around, i think i'm coming out
i'm a hater, a traitor
in a pair of chuck taylors right now
i'm not fucking around
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Alahey |
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05-20-2009 @ 8:34 PM
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Mingler
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^ Naw, I just wanted to change my signature D:
My life
A constant working progress
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SeñorBurnsOchoSeis |
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05-21-2009 @ 12:19 AM
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Stage diver
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People my age are starting to get married. I'm going to a stag and doe for my friend's sister in a few weeks. The whole idea freaks me out. When did I get so old?
This sig isn't about you
No matter how bad you want it...
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050107 |
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05-21-2009 @ 3:29 PM
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Stage diver
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i'm still single. i'm still happy about it. for a little while i was kind of upset about feeling so lonely so often, but i've gotten over it. i'm not even trying with girls right now. it's just... too complicated and too much bull for me to really desire any of it. i'm too busy with work and school right now.
This is a song for the one that I love
I haven't met them yet, but I'm quietly confident.
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goblue22 |
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05-21-2009 @ 9:26 PM
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Circle pit leader
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My relationship is going really well......but, she's going off to college soon, and i still have two years of high school........she's not going that far, but i still think it's going to be weird.......
This is a city for not sleeping...
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HFTM |
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05-22-2009 @ 4:54 AM
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Wallflower
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So today I was in class with my friend crystal, we talked and about 30 minutes or so all of a sudden she said she had to ask me something so I told her to go for it. It had something to do with my ex that I had a relationship for a year, and from out of the blue she asked me a simple "yes or no" question that is now keeping me in a frustrating never ending mindf*ck.
She asked "did it ever feel that she was cheating on you?"
I pretended not to make a big deal about it so all I said was "umm no not really, why?" and she said it was nothing, and that was about it. Now my mind is just f*cking with me and I'm trying to figure out why the hell she'd ask me something like that.
So now that simple little question is driving me nuts,
if theres something she hasn't been telling me then I'm gonna be so pissed for actually trusting her as a friend.
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BlackMariah |
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05-22-2009 @ 5:56 PM
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Crowd Surfer
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Things are going well, but I have that weird feeling I'm not the only girl he likes.
I know he's not cheating on me, because he does love me, and he also knows that if I catch him cheating on me with anyone I will castrate him. Not only that, but the girl I think he also likes wouldn't do that to me and has no interest in him...
But like, he'll say "Be right back," and go over to her and her friends and spend the rest of class over there.
Usually I don't care because I'm not one of those people that needs constant attention but today I had just told him how upset I was about somethings and at that moment I just really needed someone and what does he do about 15 minutes later? Spends the rest of the class with a group of girls.
AND this other kid's been hinting at something for awhile, and I'm getting upset with myself because I know if I dump my boyfriend at the moment and start dating this kid he'll be a lot more there for me. :/
The sun smiles on your corpse, traitor.
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